"since we ain't 21, they trying to be say it ain't love. cause we can't hit the clubs, they be trying to say we're too young. I ain't saying that we trying to be grown, I'm just saying that we old enough to know. we got that young love."
Young Love - Chris Brown
the last 2 days has been disaster.
salah satu sahabat gue pernah bilang, "love is like a sand. the more you hold on to it, the more it will fall." she's only 16, but she's right.
before I start anything.
have you ever been told that you're too young to know love?
have you ever been told that you don't know anything about love because you're only 14/15/16/17?
have you ever been told that you're too young to talk about love, just because you're only a teenager?
so-called adults that keep telling me that I have no right to talk about love because I'm only 16,
what do you know about love anyway? keep the thought for yourself, cause this is what I know about love.
it's being happy whenever you're with them. even if the person cause you pain, at the end of the day, you can laugh along with him and laugh together at the problem.
it's about having faith in everything that may be broken. It's having faith in each other.
It's about being honest. it's about being open to each other. it's about respecting morals of each other.
it's much more than looks. it's not about physically.
it's to see the imperfect person perfectly.
it's to see them just the way they are and still love them.
it's about truth, courage, passion, and heart.
it's about giving, not getting.
it's about caring. it's about learning how to put your ego after the person's happiness.
it's about accepting the other's person past, enjoying the present, and dreaming to be his/her future.
you probably laugh right now and said it's all because I'm a teenager & I don't know how the future will be. at this point, you might wanna say: "plans will always change. you don't have a clue how your future will be."
here's the fact:
I don't care.
mungkin kedepannya banyak yang akan berubah.
mungkin 10 tahun lagi, gue akan buka post ini lagi, terus ngetawain diri gue sendiri, like: "God, I was really stupid back then."
gue tau, entah kapan, gue akan putus dari pacar gue yang sekarang. yang gue gatau adalah, apakah itu besok? apakah itu tahun depan? apakah itu pas gue berubah dari his girlfriend jadi his wife? ga ada yang tau kan?
but here's the thing,
apapun yang terjadi nantinya, yang penting adalah perasaan gue yang sekarang ini nyata.
apapun yang terjadi nantinya, yang penting adalah apa yang lagi gue jalanin sekarang ini nyata.
apapun yang terjadi nantinya, yang penting adalah sekarang. karena kita ga tau apa yang terjadi nantinya.walaupun 5 tahun lagi gue akan ketawa baca ini, tapi dear future me, the feeling you have right now when you're making this post is real.
so, dear adults that keep telling me that I have no right to talk about love because I'm only 16, please, look back.
look back to the time when you're in highschool, or when you fall in love for the first time. do you remember?
the first time you realize you're falling in love with the person.
the first time you realize he or she's beautiful.
the first time you realize you love her/his smile and can't get enough of it.♥
please remember them. and remember how real it was.
and that's exactly how we feel. :)
just because I'm young, doesn't mean I don't understand how I feel.
PS. I'm only 16